5.5 Basic Rules of Relationship-Based Networking

I wanted to share with you the 5.5 rules of relationship-based networking from my Little Black Book of Connections, because they can also be applied to networking in business social media spaces as well. They are as follows:

1. Go where your best customers, probable purchasers, an prospects go.

2. Give value first. Be known as a resource.

3. Dig in. Be committed or it won’t work.

4. Be consistent, Once you get involved, seek a leadership position.

5. Get to know people on a friendly basis.

5.5 Go slow. Relationships are not built in a day. They’re built, with value, day-by-day.

People tend to do business with people they trust. Be sincere, be yourself, and over time, you will win their business and more.

These rules can apply to your business social media efforts as well as your business networking efforts. In business social media, you have to, above all, provide value. You have to be consistent. You have to be committed. You have to recognize that building relationships online takes time. It’s worth it though.

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The Difference Between Social Media and Business Social Media on YouTube

YouTube provides the biggest opportunity for you to promote your name and your brand. Anyone in the world can find you and your information. And it’s FREE!

If you have a YouTube channel, go to the main page and see how many total views you have. If it’s less than 1,000 you haven’t provided enough opportunities for others to find you, or enough value for any kind of viral activity.

Let me share some YouTube opportunities with you:

  • Create a library of customer testimonials, tips, and ideas about your product that appear in no brochure.
  • Record business philosophies that you have and want to share with others.
  • Record your best idea of the week.
  • Record your favorite customer of the week.
  • Record your favorite restaurant in your city.

You get the idea. Your ability to broadcast on your own YouTube channel is limited only by your imagination and your allocated time. And did I mention, IT’S FREE!

Start with customer testimonial videos because they will lead you to more customers and you can pull them up when you’re making a sales presentation to provide a point.

KEY POINT OF UNDERSTANDING: Keep all videos short and light. (One to four minutes is the idea length.) Keep all videos fun and real. Make sure the videos that you post are an accurate representation of who you are in the business world, and what you believe to be true with your customers, your product, your company, and you.

I am on social media providing examples for my customers so they can do the exact same thing. Spend some time watching some of the value videos I have uploaded onto my own YouTube channel:

Understanding The Power Of Twitter

It seems as though the mature (seasoned) salespeople are resisting Twitter or simply do not understand the power in it and efficacy of it. With an estimated 175 million accounts and millions of tweets a day, there MAY be something to it. Especially because the Fortune 1000s are tweeting. Every newspaper and news agency is tweeting. Thousands of small businesses are tweeting.

What are you doing? Are you tweeting every day? Or are you stymied by the process and don’t quite know what to do? (Like most people.)

WARNING: Twitter for business has nothing to do with being in your pajamas, having a tough day, heading to the office, or other inane useless information. It also has nothing to do with “tweeple,” “tweeps,” or other buzzwords that are cute and condescending.

  • Twitter is about informing.
  • Twitter is about passing on information.
  • Twitter is about value messages.
  • Twitter is about connecting.

Twitter is about others finding value in your messages or information and passing it on to others. And when you’re retweeted, it’s proof that your message had enough value, content, or vital information that people in your network were willing to pass it on to their network.

How does a daily value tweet help you?

1. It challenges you to think and write. Daily discipline.

2. It challenges you to create viral messages so that you become better known as a person of value.

3. It challenges you to create the REAL law of attraction. Attraction = potential customer.

3.5 People will proactively connect with you. If they agree with you, and they respect you, they’ll tell others to connect with you as well.

There is a secret to Twitter success. And it’s the same secret for all of social media, especially business social media: Wake up and WRITE.

Here are some Twitter conversations going on right now about me:


Your (Personal) Business Social Media Game Plan

Regardless of where you are in the construction or operation of your business social media outreach, I’m asking you to relook at and rethink about the process because the odds are you started it with the wrong motive: money and sales.

In regard to your business Facebook page, your Twitter account, your LinkedIn connections, and your YouTube channel — ask yourself these questions (for each of the four individually):

  • What am I hoping to achieve?
  • Who am I wanting to attract, engage, and connect with?
  • Who will help me design?
  • Who will help me launch?
  • Who will help me post?
  • Who will be in charge of this process short term?
  • Who will be in charge of this process long term?
  • Do I need professional help?
  • How much time am I willing to allocate each day?
  • How often am I committing to update?
  • What type of value messaging am I going to offer?

The answers to these questions (written down) will create both structure and architecture for your entire business social media game plan. It will also determine your strategy for attracting, engaging, and connecting.

Luckily for you, most people started a Facebook page because their neighbor did or one of their friends did. Don’t do that. Start (or restart) your business social media outreach with purpose, plan, and design. And start (or restart) it with an understanding of what you want to achieve. Not just a goal to launch, but also a goal to attract, a goal to engage, a goal to connect, and a goal for what you want the OUTCOME to be.

Whatever you do, do not follow the ill-fated “Begin with the end in mind.” A more bogus, meaningless statement has never been written to the world business population.

It should say “Begin with the outcome defined.”

If you don’t begin knowing what you want to achieve, and how you intend to achieve it, then don’t begin.

Business social media is far different from, and far more powerful than, social media. Business social media will allow you to keep existing customers loyal, attract new customers, build your reputation, and create more brand awareness than you could ever do with a full page ad every week in Time magazine, or a full page ad every Sunday in The New York Times.

MATH: Those ads will cost you millions of dollars a year, and guarantee you NOTHING. Business social media is free, and a million times more powerful, more authentic, and more valuable.

And if done correctly, business social media puts you in direct one-to-one contact with paying customers. That’s a game plan you can take to the bank.

HOW TO: Start Your Own Business Facebook Page

Here is a 5.5-part success formula:

1. Gather the email address of each one of your customer contacts. There may be three or four connections at one place. Then gather all your prospective customers whether you have spoken to them or not (email addresses and names). Then gather all your vendors, prime connections, and the CEO of every vendor you have. If there are end users involved in your sales chain, gather as many of them as well. How many names and email addresses do you have? Never think, “I don’t have enough names.” Even if you have only 50, and those people are loyal advocates of yours, you can begin to create your own business Facebook page.

2. Begin gathering valuable content that your customers would perceive as usable and profitable. Information that they would consider so valuable that they might forward it to somebody else. Gather lots of it. Think of it this way: Every paragraph that you have can be one day’s post. Don’t start your business page without at least 30 days of postings.

3. Have your business page designed graphically and strategically. Sometimes it pays to pay. If you seek out and hire credible, professional help in design AND strategy, you will get incredible results. Although the ability for graphic alteration within Facebook is limited, that doesn’t mean you can’t use what’s available to its maximum power. How your page looks to others, and the value of what you post, created the attraction power. How you link to other ports of “you” builds your following, your reputation, and your limelight.

4. Your Facebook page has to be a door that swings both ways. People attracted in from value and people that can immediately click out to find out more about you.

5. Use my page as a guideline. It’s designed to make certain that I have a linkage to all other business social media and all other forms of attraction. It even has a welcome video that describes what the page does so that people have no hesitancy to “Like” me.

5.5 Sign up for Ace of Sales to create the coolest emails on the planet. And then construct a short email that invites people to join you on your business Facebook Page.

Just remember: All business social media in interconnected. You have to do ALL of them consistently to gain effective results. And you have to do all of them well if you expect to monetize your efforts.

The sales world is changing. Are you changing?

The sales world is changing. Are you changing? Been in sales for more than five years? Notice any changes? Of course you have – but probably not the ones I’m going to talk about. I’m NOT talking about the economy, or customers in financial trouble, or slow sales, or price pressures from competition, or pressures from your boss to “sell more now.” Oh and, by the way, how about YOUR changes? Still cold calling? Still learning “how to close?” Still “finding the pain?” Still trying to figure out social media? Still a bit behind technology? That’s your problem.

I AM talking about changes that have taken place over the past five years that will affect sales into the next decade. Your sales. Here are the major changes that have taken place, and how you must take advantage of them and master them to sell and succeed:

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5.5 Things You Can Do To Improve Your Writing Skills

The core process of business social media is writing. Every aspect of Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter, and YouTube requires writing. Clear, concise, compelling writing. I can’t teach you “how to write.” Or “how to write better.” I can share with you how I write, and you can take it from there.

Everyone needs to (learn to) write in a more compelling manner: clear, concise, compelling writing is a rarity in our world. Email and text messaging has helped with clear and concise, but it has taken “compelling” out of the formula.

Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter, YouTube, e-zines, and blogs have put compelling back in.

Here are 5.5 things you can do to improve your writing skills:

1. Just sit down and write something. Every day.

2. Save your best thoughts and ideas the second they occur. Not on a pad of paper or a diary. ON A COMPUTER. Where you can reread it, expand it, and edit it.

3. Write it like you would say it.

4. Make sure your thoughts are simple, easy to understand, and complete.

5. Edit early and often

5.5. Remember that you’re writing for the reader AND yourself.

For more writing and business social media tips, read some of my books:

Who’s afraid of social media and social networking? You are!

You’re a chicken.

Let me correct that. You’re a dumb chicken. You’re out in the middle of the road, pecking for scraps of food, and an 18-wheeler is about to run you over.

Let me explain: Business social media has created the biggest chicken farm in the history of mankind.

But you’re chicken to get involved with, or participate in, what will prove to be the biggest boom to business and sales since the creation of the Internet. The chicken farm is also known as “Corporate America.”

Since a very small percentage of salespeople and businesspeople in the country are taking total advantage of business social media, I’m assuming you fall into the chicken category. And I’m not just talking corporations and lawyers here. I’m talking you, the salesperson, are a chicken.

Here are the elements that may be holding you back from participating in Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter and YouTube to build your connections, your reputation, your business and (of course) your sales:

1. You’re technologically challenged. You may feel overwhelmed at the thought of creating your own business Facebook page, your own LinkedIn account, your own Twitter account and certainly your own YouTube channelRelax: Each one of these social media programs has easy-to-follow tutorials that will allow you to get started and establish your base. It will require an investment of time — about two to three hours total. Or, in that same period of time, you could make 20 cold calls and receive 20 rejections. Think about it.

2. You don’t know where to begin. Begin by calling your top 25 customers to find out what they consider valuable in their marketplace and in their business, and inform them you’re about to create a value-based business social media presence, and you’ll be sending them an email asking them to join you.

3. You don’t know which program to start with. Start with Facebook. Currently the third-largest country in the world, Facebook has now interconnected more than 600 million people, many of whom are your customers and your prospects. You may already have a personal Facebook account. Now start a Facebook “business” page.

4. You don’t know what to say. When you call your customers and find out what they want to hear, what they want to read and what they want to learn about, you’ll know exactly what to say. Business social media is not complex. It’s not a course in calculus or physics. The secret basically revolves around common sense and providing value. Those are the core elements.

5. You don’t understand how it applies to business. Business social media provides a first-ever open forum where customers can connect with you and share their feelings, and you have an opportunity to respond back. If you don’t see how it applies to business, perhaps you should search your competitors, who are at this moment making some feeble attempt to get involved. Your job is to create a better, more open, more truthful forum on Facebook, on Twitter and on YouTube.

6. You’re afraid your customers will post something bad. Wake up and smell the Internet. Just because you don’t give customers an opportunity to post bad news, doesn’t mean they’re not going to post it. If you give them an opportunity to post, it will give you an opportunity to respond and fix the problem or at least address it, thereby giving your other customers assurance that you’re paying attention.

This is also a huge opportunity for your business to discover your own weaknesses and make certain they don’t reoccur. I believe a negative post on your business Facebook page is one of the most positive opportunities you could have. And the only people against it are C-level chickens and marketing chickens. Oh, wait, I left out lawyer chickens.

7. You’re afraid the boss will fire you. If you’re posting positive comments about customer interactions and customers themselves are posting their comments about how much they love you, your fears might turn into a raise. Most of the time, bosses are afraid of business social media because they are technologically challenged themselves. (Note well: All bosses and all sales managers are chickens. That’s why they put a noncompete clause in your contract in the first place.)

8. You’re afraid you will break the rules arbitrarily set by your corporate attorneys. The easiest way to ensure that you stay away from rules is to stay away from your company name. Your business Facebook page should be about the product or the service, not the company. Keep in mind, you’re branding yourself, and you’re branding your expertise. This is all about communicating and helping customers, not selling products.

9. You’re afraid no one will follow you. If you set up a page and use the “Field of Dreams” strategy — “If you build it, they will come” — you are correct, no one will follow you. If you create a game plan as outlined above, post valuable information and invite your customers to follow you, you’ll have more followers than you can say grace over.

10. You’re afraid to make the personal commitment. Time fears and time commitments are one of the biggest barriers of life, not just business social media. I recommend that you list the hours of a day that you’re awake — maybe 16, maybe 18, whatever it is — and allocate them to the projects you consider most important, saving at least two hours for business social media. One hour in the morning and an hour in the evening.

Note well: If your boss is stupid enough to forbid Facebook at work, start the morning at Starbucks. Make 25 connections, post five great events and cruise into work an hour late. After a week, the boss will ask what you’re up to. Show ’em. You might be able to get a rule changed.

10.5. Your bosses and lawyers are not just afraid of business social media; they’re afraid of everything.

The simple answer to involvement and achieving business social media success is: seek professional help. I did. One Social Media (http://www.onesocialmedia.com) advises me how to cross-link, keyword and other Googleable actions. It’s working.

Reallocate time. Two hours a day to start. Get into the 21st century.

It’s measurable, and it’s pleasurable.

I’m Gonna Google You, And You Can’t Stop Me

As business social media evolved and matures, all salespeople, executives, and entrepreneurs will expose themselves for who they are and who they aren’t…WAY BEFORE a sales call or sales meeting of any kind takes place.

Think about the impact of that…

  • I’m gonna Google YOU.
  • I’m gonna Facebook YOU.
  • I’m gonna find you on LinkedIn.
  • I’m gonna look you up on Twitter.
  • I’m gonna search you on YouTube.

And you can’t stop me.

Here are the NEW standards by which you’ll  be evaluated, granted appointment time, decided upon, measured, branded, and talked about:

Are you ready to be found?

6.5 Tough Questions Designed To Make You Think, Plan, And Act

The social media boom is here! Are you participating? Or are you just watching from the sidelines? If you still haven’t decided if you’re ready to enter the world of business social media, I want you to ask yourself these 6.5 tough questions designed to make you think, plan, and act:

1. What are you doing about the social media opportunity?
2. How are you attracting customers and prospects?
3. What’s your value message beyond product offerings?
4. How are you engaging customers and prospects?
5. How are you connecting with the people you engage?
6. What’s your social media doubling plan?
6.5. What policies, trust issues, and lawyers are holding you back? Get rid of them!

Those are painful questions that need answering. Here’s what I can tell you: Individuals (like you) can safely set up their own value-based, value-messaging BUSINESS Facebook page INSIDE the parameters of whatever guidelines their business has. And they can do the same with LinkedIn, Twitter, and YouTube.

It requires hard work and consistency, but the benefits are well worth your time and energy.

Don’t wait any longer to enter the world of business social media. Start today.

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